ceara lynch , from portland , oregon , takes the more traditional dominatrix idea a step further , not just dominating her customers but demeaning , shaming and generally humiliating them .
and the 28-year-old entrepreneur says that making money this way -- which she has been doing since she was a dream .
ceara says she 's up-front about her job when she 's dating , and she 's had three serious relationships over the course of her career .